Name: Leah Kaye
What name you go by: L.K. Most of my family and very close friends call me Leah. People always seemed to have trouble pronouncing or spelling my name. It’s been spelled: Lia, Lea, Leighah, Leigha, Leeuh, Leea, and Liah. It’s been pronounced Leia (Star Wars), Lean, Leann (for some reason the verticle line on my lower-case “h” is never high enough for some people and they assume my name is LeAnn). I decided to forego the trouble and go by my initials.
Ethnic background: English, Irish, Scottish, Welsh, German, French, Native American, Scandinavian
Place of birth: Indianapolis, Indiana
Year of birth: 1987
Popularity of name that year: Ranked 82nd
Meaning/origins of name: Derived from the Hebrew lā’āh (weary, to tire). The name is borne in the Bible by the eldest daughter of Laban and the first of Jacob’s four wives.
Why did your parents choose this name for you? My parents went through a few drafts of my name. They really wanted something biblical. First, I was going to be named Tirzah, but they could not find a middle name they liked. (My hilarious grandmother recommended Joy, but my parents didn’t find it funny.) Then they picked Jenny Kate, after two of my great-grandmothers Jennye and Kathern. But dear old dad felt bad that his other grandmother, who was still living at the time, would feel left out. So they went through the bible again and picked Leah. Partially because my father’s mom’s middle name was Lee and my mother’s mom’s middle name was Martha. Kaye was decided on because it was both of my aunts’ middle names.
Does your family have any naming traditions? Not that I know of, at least none that my parents followed.
What names have people called you based on your name? Leah doesn’t lend itself well to nicknames, but I’ve been called Leelee by a few friends, as well as the aforementioned mistakes.
Do you like your name? It’s okay. Every name causes some kind of problem, whether it is too simple, common, difficult, wierd, etc. All in all, I have never really felt like a “Leah”.
What is it like to go through life disliking your name? I always felt left out having a name that was just different enough. There were no pencils with my name on it, people had a hard time pronouncing/ spelling it, no one else had my name (which was good and bad).
Did you have times in your life where you felt differently about your name? Since the meanings of my name are not particularly pleasant: “weary” and “wild cow” (although I love cows and my kitchen is covered in them), and since my biblical namesake didn’t have the best story, I never got what was so appealing about it. However, being named after four amazing women in my family was pretty special.
What happened for you to have a change of opinion? I realized that while name meaning and historical or literary references are nice, what really matters is your personal history. My parents named me for people they loved dearly, and I was certainly no exception.
Have you had difficulty with others understanding your name? Yes, as explained above.
If you could change your name to anything, what would it be? I’m happy with my initials, though when they told me I was almost named Jenny Kate, there were times I would have killed to have the name Jennifer Katherine as opposed to the cutesy Jenny Kate or Leah Kaye.
Any stories about your name? Well, like the biblical story of Leah, her younger sister Rachel and their cousin Jacob, when I got married, I gained younger sister-in-law Rachel and cousin Jacob. So that’s interesting.
Is there anything else you’d like to add? Name your kids what you want, if they don’t like it, they’ll change it.